• rumba@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    Yeah, If you have a decent sized house, an animal or two, a couple of kids, toss on some mild depression, the chore list can just strangle you.

    • wake
    • cook breakfast for kids
    • eat on the fly
    • let dog out
    • wake kid one
    • make kid one’s lunch
    • let dog in
    • have them get dressed and get their shit together
    • prepare dogs food, don’t only eats warm chicken and kibble
    • wash dogs bowl, fill bowl
    • wake kid 2, give them food
    • take kid 1 to school
    • have kid 2 get ready
    • do kid 2’s hair and get their finer points done
    • clean up kitchen
    • wash dishes.
    • make sure kid 2 has lunch money,
    • walk kid to bus stop
    • walk home
    • back yard poo duty
    • start work
    • wife gets up
    • laundry
    • cleaning
    • vacuuming
    • work break to eat lunch
    • pick up kid 1
    • cleaning
    • pick up kid 2
    • put dishes away
    • get off work
    • kid 2 to sports
    • start dinner
    • everyone eats
    • refill dishwasher
    • spend a little time with the kids, playing games or watching a show
    • put dishes away
    • clean
    • feed the dog
    • let the dog out/in
    • trash

    I’m going solid from 6a-8p If something isn’t broken or a project doesn’t need done, i get at best a couple hours a night right before bed to read/consume/extra sleep

    My wife is going solid from about 10-10, spends a little extra time with the kids and gets an hour or two to herself.

    On the weekend, we lose a couple extra hours to sleeping in, about 2/3 of that list still happens, but now there’s yard work and taking the kids places. extra meals to cook.

    In my 20’s and early 30’s there were no kids making messes and breaking things and when it was just us, so what if the dishwasher is overfull or the counter wasn’t cleaned. and we could afford to eat out more.