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My girlfriend was looking to get a new IUD after her last one was expiring. For some reason the normal approach is completely without anaesthesia. There are so many horror stories of women being in awful pain during and up to weeks after the procedure. She looked around for a gynecologist with a focus on contraception (most focus on conception which is kind of annoying if you’re not at that stage in life yet) and we were able to find one. He said there’s no reason to not be using local anaesthesia. The procedure was very simple. Unbelievable how many women are going through pain that would be entirely preventable.
It’s true. People are telling me in the comments that it’s painless, but having a device shoved into your cervix without anesthesia is terrible.
There’s probably some theory like “you can’t get proper patient feedback with anesthesia” or some such bullshit.
No medical consensus just decided based on a bunk study by Alfred Kinsey that, because only 5% of women could feel a “gentle stroke” to the cervix by a small probe, the cervix must be “the most completely insensitive part of the female anatomy” and not possess any nerve endings and therefore it must be fake when women complain about having any sensation there. Nevermind that the data in the study itself disproved its own conclusion and the 3 major nerve groups that are stimulated by the cervix.
err, not trying to be that guy, my girlfriend said that gynecology didn’t hurt, and she went to public health care here in brasil, so i think is just lack of competency, and USA health system?
Endometriosis is more common than people without vaginas realize and it often goes undiagnosed. My wife was gaslit about the pain of gyno procedures for two whole decades until the a doctor finally diagnosed her. A diagnosis which only came due a tubal ligation procedure forcing the doctors to physically see all the scar tissue inside her.
Yup, my wife has it and it AMAZING how many doctors are ignorant about it. We literally had one doctor tell her she “probably didn’t have that, because Endo is a very complicated disease and blah blah blah”. Nevermind all the symptoms lining up and the fact her GRANDMA HAD IT.
Went to a specialist surgeon focusing on it and he did a quick exam and was like “yep you have it, it felt like you have rocks in your vagina”. It was THAT obvious and yet no other fucking gyno she saw before that point noticed anything! Like doctors, please listen to your lady patients, PLEASE!
I always like when they say, “that’s rare so you don’t have that” (in regards to any potential diagnosis, really)
It’s like they forget that “rare” doesn’t mean “inexistent”
Yeah, it just reminds me that not every doctor aced med school… someone had to be bottom of the class (while still technically passing).
I think you need to talk to more than one girl about that… really depends on the procedure, your sensitivity down there and the competence of the gynaecologist. I’ve been to appointments that were fine and I’ve been there near crying from pain…
I think we’re just conditioned to tolerate it. An episiotomy is a terrible thing.
You are a warrior my friend 🧡
I’m not conditioned to anything. I won’t argue I’m probably lucky but I’ve had 3 gynecologists in my life and routine examinations have been uncomfortable but have never hurt or made me cry.
Sample size of 1. The point of this whole thread is that people don’t believe women when they say they are in pain. Obviously there are individual differences between patients, and differences in quality of care.
Your girlfriend is lucky. I’m a British woman. It hurts. How many other women need to post from how many countries to convince you?
My girlfriend (also British) always complained it hurt until we moved and she got a new gyno and said with the new one she barely felt a thing.
exactly that what i want to say, it don’t need to be painful and it’s the doctor fault. isn’t there a way to review these doctors, or alert others womans?, or they learn to do it properly or they start losing clients
That’s called selection bias my friend.
maybe, but from the answers look more like doctor stupidity than just certain woman being more sensitive or the exam be made literally to torture woman, not saying that the problem exist, but to fix it we need to blame correctly
Are there no female gynecologists?
I would imagine that tolerating the pain was beaten into women for so long that at this point it would be futile to try to change it because they would be shamed and seen as weak.
There was a documented case of a nurse stealing pain medication and injecting women with saline to cover for it and it took years for her to be caught because no one believed the women who said they were in pain. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/22/podcasts/serial-the-retrievals-yale-fertility-clinic.html&ved=2ahUKEwi1n93Yip2FAxWONlkFHStzA7wQFnoECAUQAQ&usg=AOvVaw23_e6wsBLQ7jybQBvuJOvI
Personally I’ve had numerous cervical biopsies (as in they cut chunks out of you with the devil’s scissors) and the standard of care is no numbing agent or pain medication of any kind. The dr said to give a yell if I was going to faint bc that happens a lot. I asked why I couldn’t have something and they were like, ‘dunno. We just don’t do that’
I’m a guy, so forgive my ignorance for this question: could you not have requested it? And by request, I mean push until they agreed?
They won’t agree no matter how hard you push.
So b your logic, do you believe some minority cops means no institutionalised racism in policing?
I asked a question
I don’t believe for a second that you didn’t know there were female gynecologists. You were attempting to shift blame, not ask questions and engage in meaningful discourse.
