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Cake day: January 22nd, 2024

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  • I have nightmares where the borrow checker is shouting at me incomprehensibly about the literal bugs and I shoot them with the clone laser and the borrow checker stops shouting for ten seconds, but now there are two bugs for each original bug and Tim Berners Lee floats by saying it’s not very idiomatic and I shouldn’t expect to get to work on time if I just keep stopping along the journey to spend all my time cloning the bugs.















  • This was me. A few months ago, I threw out a cable I thought was for a 20 year old flipphone that I’ll never use again, but it was a charger for something else and I wanted it last week for a relative. Now we need to buy new hardware. Don’t do it, kids, horde those cables. Horde them like you don’t fancy spending an unnecessary 30 smackers next year.


  • Sorry, I didn’t mean to cause offence at all, I just assumed that in a poly relationships the boundaries were open for negotiation, and that like you say open communication would be key. I didn’t know he went behind her back, I know nothing about this story other than what I read on this thread.

    I get that in a conventional relationship, leaving someone for their best friend or their sibling would be a particularly heinous betrayal, but didn’t assume that that would be the same for someone in a poly relationship. I didn’t mean to offend anyone by asking and I apologise for any and all offence caused.