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  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldOur duty
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    I don’t think the average person is actually capable of guaging their level of satisfaction in life

    One could argue they’re the only ones who can gauge it.

    But there’s definitely a struggle to separate the symptoms of happiness from the conditions of happiness.

    Like, if happiness is just a chemical, then OD on it and you’ve successfully maximized the raw score. But if you asked someone in advance if that’s how they want to live their lives, I don’t think you’d get many eager for it.


  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldOur duty
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    parents are overall less happy than adults without kids

    Higher levels of stress, less money in the bank, fewer hours of sleep, yadda yadda. You could say the same thing about people who start their own businesses or take up a career in politics or do literally anything that’s taxing on the human body and mind.

    Want to know how to live a truly carefree lifestyle? Take up heroin. Folks in an opiate haze are consistently ranked some of the happiest on earth.

    And the post was about vibe and chill

    It’s this sort of weird backhanded brag that tries to make a virtue out of self-indulgence. Might as well go full Gordon Geeko with it if you’re this far in.


  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldOur duty
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    I can also tell you that almost every parent I know, and I know many because almost everyone my age have kids, are super active and do all kinds of fun things with their kids all the time.

    It’s always funny to watch a guy who has been a sports buff on the sidelines for half his life pick up coaching Little League baseball or soccer and come away with a totally different appreciation for the sport. Suddenly, he’s heavily invested in rookie year players, way more interested in the training camps than any of us have ever been, and saying the word “fundamentals” until our eyes have rolled out of our heads.

    It’s incredibly cute and funny. Even as he says “Listen, my son’s not going to make it to the pros” he’s got to doubles back about how Tom Brady was a bottom of the barrel draft pick. Guy just loves his kid and loves what he does.


  • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldOur duty
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    It’s always a bit surreal to see people insist “As a childless adult, I get to have hobbies while you don’t” when - as a childed adult - I find myself picking up hobbies I’d never even considered before kids.

    My little guy stumbles on things and gets into them, needs some help, and suddenly we’re both neck-deep in a jigsaw puzzle or a TV series or a train kit or a pile of half-painted miniatures.












  • It’s weird to talk about “a wealth of opportunities to learn” without asking about opportunities to benefit from the knowledge.

    Like, the number one reason Americans learn Japanese is to… watch anime, play Japanese video games, and consume other Japanese culture. Virtually no one is getting an economic benefit out of it.

    Same with a lot of technical skills - why am I learning how to build a raspberry pi server if not to improve my home media center? Or learning to cook or bake or grill, if not to enjoy a nice meal? Why learn home repair if not to make your house a little nicer?

    For the handful of people who want to turn this into a career or a business? Cool. Good luck.

    But just because the sky is the limit doesn’t mean that’s what you need to aim for.