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  • I googled a bit, my best bet is Canada.

    Large population of the Chinese diaspora, so I don’t feel too much like a minority (I am Chinese American).

    The other choice is Australia.

    EU is great, but since the UK isn’t in EU anymore, I’d have to chose a non-English country, meaning, I’d have to learn another language. My brain can’t handle that. Already have 3 spoken and 2 written languages stuck in my head (mostly dormant, haven’t used some those languages for a while), I think my brain will explode if I try to learn more. Population of the Chinese diaspora is too small. So I’d also feel alone, because like… Imagine living in a place where nobody looks like you. Like a Black American kid in the deep south of the US and all your classmates are white, that’s how it feels basically. As for the UK, I wouldn’t need to learn another language, but UK just had a xenophobic riot in 2024, doesn’t seem too friendly in my opinion. If the UK was in EU, I could just pack up and to go another EU country if Shit Hits the Fan, its what I like about the EU, options. But too bad UK isn’t in EU…

    There is also Singapore, which has like over 70% ethnic Chinese, and the official languages include English and Mandarin, which I already know.

    Not technically “dream countries”, but the most realistic countries that would be livable for me. Because I doubt I can speak Norweigian or Finnish. (Even tho I would love those countries)

    TLDR: As a Chinese American, Canada as first choice, Australia as second place. Then probably Sinapore.

    (Sorry if I’m rambling, can’t express it coherently since ICE raids are on my mind)

    Edit: I would probably also say Taiwan as an option, well… other than the fact that they are constantly on the verge of getting invaded, and I am not fond of the CCP.



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    -United States Declaration of Independence












  • I’ve always leaned left on most issues, but with the exception of abortion, which I kinda flipped back and forth. Hear me out.

    I was originally pro-choice, but then I later changed my mind and became anti-abortion because I genuinly just believe fetuses are alive.

    But I was still left-leaning and I remember googling: “Democrats who are pro-life” and when the search results turn uo so few names, I was confused and felt kinda alone. I genuinely didn’t understand why nobody held my beliefs.

    But then the issue of SA comes up and I’m like that should be an exception becuase you should never have to give birth to something to should never existed had the crime not occured. I was searching throught the internet and found one reddit comment in I think r/ChangeMyView pointing out it doesn’t make sense to think a fetus is alive and also believe in exceptions to abortion bans; as-in: “abortion is bad, but abortion okay if the fetus is result of SA”, like… the position isn’t consistent.

    So after a while, changed my view again, I’m pro-choice now, I view fetus as potential persons, not a fully developed person. Unless there is a way to safely transfer it to an artificial womb, I believe abortion should be legal until they can be safely separated (aka: until birth). To clarify: I don’t like abortions per se, it is sad that a potential living being is gone, but it’s a necessary evil, because the alternative would be worse.

    My pro-gun stance have not changed, I don’t trust the government, now more than ever gestured broadly at the US Federal Government

    But despite these views that contradicted the main US Democratic platform, I’ve always supported Democratic Candidates (particularly those in the Progressive wing), I’ve never voted for those right-wing extremists. I don’t vote single issue. Because for each view I disagree with the Dems on, there are 100 republican policies I despise.







  • Right now, not much.

    I used to play Stardew Valley on my phone until I got bored of it. I was fun while it lasted.

    Into The Breach is also good (get a modded apk so you don’t need a subscription)

    Slay the Spire, still have no idea what strategies work.

    That’s pretty much it, everything else is not really fun.

    Unciv is an Honorable mention, but after a few turns and it gets dragged on for over a day, it just gets boring and I have no interest in continuing.