my bf is poly and already has a bf, so he doesn’t want to initiate anything with me. he doesn’t wanna call nor hang out, and he always texts very dry. he’s nice, but i don’t feel loved.

I’m not doing well mentally though. my gf already ignores me (she and i are poly too) and i feel like i will die if he breaks up (though i clearly won’t die)

  • drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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    1 month ago

    well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.

    sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first

    “They mostly just type like this.

    Hello

    I’m fine, what about you?

    Sorry, I can’t hang out. I don’t want my boyfriend to be upset.”

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      1 month ago

      That’s not how poly relationships work. You are a side bitch for when his bf is not around. Please remove yourself from this “relationship” for your sake.